learn the rule: me or I?

  • I and me are 1st person singular pronouns
  • I is the nominative form and is used when the pronoun is the subject
    • I need to buy some potatoes.
    • I am not ugly.
  • Me is the accusative form and is used when the pronoun is the object
    • The potato hit me in the face.
    • You are uglier than me.
  • There are some exceptions:
    • I can be used in more formal situations; me can be used in less formal situations, e.g.
      • Who was it?
      • It was me. (informal)
      • It was I. (formal)
    • Me is used when following prepositions, e.g., "...behind John and me", not "...behind John and I"
  • Things get more confusing when there are multiple subjects or objects in the expression
    • The pronoun never appears first in an expression (as you always place yourself last)
      1. Wrong: "[I/me] and my daughter went to the Zoo"
        Right: "My daughter and [I/me] went to the Zoo"
      2. Wrong: "The bus hit [I/me], Bob, Jenny and Dave"
        Right: "The bus hit Bob, Jenny, Dave and [I/me]" *
    • The same subject/object rules apply when determining whether to use I or me
      1. Right: "My daughter and I went to the Zoo." since the pronoun is the subject.
      2. Right: "The bus hit Bob, Jenny, Dave and me. " since the pronoun is the object.
    • A simple way to check is by removing all the other subjects/objects and deciding if it still sounds correct:
      • "I went to the Zoo" vs "Me went to the Zoo"
      • "The bus hit me" vs "The bus hit I"
  • Beware getting it wrong can change the meaning of the sentence
    • "Jenny fancies Bob more than me" - Jenny is more attracted to Bob than she is attracted to you
    • "Jenny fancies Bob more than I" - Jenny is more attracted to Bob than you are attracted to Bob
  • Getting it wrong is pretty easy.
  • It still makes you look stupid. And uglier than... me? Or I?
  • *Although this also depends on how you feel about Oxford commas.